Yeah--my understanding of a rebound is that person that you're just using to put another body between you and your ex. And hey, I can't say anything against it really. Sometimes what you really need is just that person that you kinda dig (but know you don't want permanently) that you can date long enough so that the last person you dated wasn't the ex that really fucked you up.
(HAHAHAHAHAHAHA DUA HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA!)
I really don't understand what the big issue amongst folk who date but won't date someone if it "won't last." Psh. Who cares? You can't know if something will last, no matter what you think. Even if you think you can get along for the next 100 years, it means diddly squat if they're killed in an accident after three weeks. You may not be able to keep anyone that you want, for one reason or another. So, why not enjoy the people you can, when you can? And when it's over...well. Move along.
But maybe that's my inner free love raw food vegan environmentalist hippie talking.
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Date: 2010-11-11 10:24 am (UTC)(HAHAHAHAHAHAHA DUA HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA!)
I really don't understand what the big issue amongst folk who date but won't date someone if it "won't last." Psh. Who cares? You can't know if something will last, no matter what you think. Even if you think you can get along for the next 100 years, it means diddly squat if they're killed in an accident after three weeks. You may not be able to keep anyone that you want, for one reason or another. So, why not enjoy the people you can, when you can? And when it's over...well. Move along.
But maybe that's my inner free love raw food vegan environmentalist hippie talking.