I was referring to the like 175 people who answered before I did, and before you did. They all said the same thing: "no, and of course *I* would never do that". It's a nice theory, but in my experience with people, it's not always practiced.
I know NOW to end things with a dishonest person, but at the time I hadn't been able to compile all the times he'd lied to me in a tangible way to understand just how badly I was being treated. Instead I played into his lies+apologies/excuses (not to mention somehow playing into it all being my fault somehow), and we developed snooping behavior. I live my life on being open, and I have always expected everyone else to be the same. The problem is, a lot of people don't also hold that value, which leads to mistrust.
I share my passwords with my boyfriend, though he hasn't shared his with me. Maybe once, but I forgot it already :P I don't NEED to be looking through his stuff, because unlike the previous douchebag I was with, he's honest and open. And he doesn't really need my stuff either, because I tell him what's going on in my life, and on LJ, and on Facebook, etc.
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I know NOW to end things with a dishonest person, but at the time I hadn't been able to compile all the times he'd lied to me in a tangible way to understand just how badly I was being treated. Instead I played into his lies+apologies/excuses (not to mention somehow playing into it all being my fault somehow), and we developed snooping behavior. I live my life on being open, and I have always expected everyone else to be the same. The problem is, a lot of people don't also hold that value, which leads to mistrust.
I share my passwords with my boyfriend, though he hasn't shared his with me. Maybe once, but I forgot it already :P I don't NEED to be looking through his stuff, because unlike the previous douchebag I was with, he's honest and open. And he doesn't really need my stuff either, because I tell him what's going on in my life, and on LJ, and on Facebook, etc.