I developed a fetish for long-haired hippie girls, bordering on obsession. Then goth girls. And especially hippie-goth girls. That resulted from very formative experiences in my earlier life. Then, my wife lost her lovely long red hair she grew out just for me, to an illness. I never liked short hair, on me or my lovers. But I rewired my desire, and she is as beautiful to me as ever, with more or less a crew-cut.