Ooh, thanks for the tip! I imagine I'll be similar to you. I have a feeling I'm going to be incredibly stubborn about "what I want." But yes, I will feel a sense of anxiety over forking over such chunks of cash.

I remember looking at wedding pics when I first added you. If you don't mind me asking, how much was your wedding? And what did you do - where did you hold the ceremony/reception, anything special for centerpieces or little gifts for guests? What about food/bar? I'm super curious!